Let’s talk about Sex after Baby - with Debra Pascali-Bonaro

When I discovered Debra’s work, I knew I wanted to interview her as her message should be heard by all moms-to-be, parents and couples. 

Debra has a different view of birth than the conventional approach. It’s not about pain and fear, it’s about an enjoyable and pleasurable birth. She introduced me to the notion of Orgasmic birth. Her book was extremely enlightening and mind blowing to me when I first read it. Everything is backed by science – the effects that drugs and instrumentation can have on the birth flow, the hormones released and even the connection and bond you’re creating with baby and your partner at this very moment. 

The connection she makes between what’s happening during birth and orgasm is absolutely incredible. This is not something you will hear in a conventional approach, however as they explain in the book, you can still have this experience in a medical setting like a hospital. As Debra is sharing during the interview, it’s also about shifting our mindset and beliefs about giving birth. It is completely accessible to anyone. 

This is definitely a new approach that should be presented to every mother-to-be and shift this notion that birth should be painful and a traumatic experience, too often associated with giving birth. 

Debra shared also some tips to live the birth you want to have. She is introducing us to the notion of letting it go and how you can create this shift of your current beliefs on birth, past experiences or stories you heard.